WEEKLY FOOD FOR THOUGHT
FALL 2005

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(Friday, September 30)

KEEP LOVING

Keep loving because of.
Keep loving in spite of.
Keep loving when to love is most difficult.
Keep loving when you have no strength.
Keep loving because Jesus loves you
in good times and bad
on mountaintops, in valleys.
When all else fails,
keep on loving.

from When I'm On My Knees by Anita Corrine Donihue

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(Sunday, September 25)

Jerusalem, I can never forget you!  I have written your name on the palms of my hands.
--Isaiah 49:16 GNT

If you're in Christ, your name is written on God's hands.  It's not written in ballpoint; it's not a temporary reminder, the way you might write "history test Monday" on the palm of your hand so you don't forget to study.  No, the word translated "written" in the verse quoted above is really more like "engraved" or "tattooed."  The names of God's people can't be scrubbed away.  For all eternity, they're right there in God's sight, where he can't miss them.

Here's something that will boggle your mind:  if you are in Christ, your future, your eternity is just as secure as that of the saints who are already in heaven.  They're happier than you are; they don't have to think about final exams or dating or their wardrobe.  They don't have to deal with worry or doubts or temptations.  But they aren't more secure than you are.

You are in the grip of grace.  There's no prying the fingers of the loving Christ away from you.  "I am convinced," wrote the apostle Paul, "that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 8:38-39 NIV).

Cling to Christ.  Hold on to your Savior with all the strength you can muster.  But when your grasp starts to slip (and it will), know that your security comes from God's grip on you, not your grip on him.  That's what assurance means; it's a confidence that the God who has called you to himself is faithful to keep you.  In spite of your failures.  In spite of your doubts.

One of the great benefits of this assurance is the joy it brings; it's a good feeling.  But sometimes you just don't feel all that good.  You don't feel secure.  You don't feel like the apple of God's eye.  What then?  That's when you take your eyes off yourself--your mistakes, your doubt, your self-pity--and look to the God who loved you so much he gave up his Son for you.

from words to live by for teens
published by Bethany House

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(Friday, September 16)

TIME

It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. "Jack, did you hear me?" "Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over on 'his side of the fence,' as he put it," Mom told him. "I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.

"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said. "He's the one who taught me carpentry," Jack said. "I wouldn't be in the business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important.... Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," he added.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture ... Jack stopped suddenly. "What's wrong, Jack?" his mom asked. "The box is gone," he said. "What box?" "There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack answered.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. "Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read. Early the next day Jack retrieved the package.

The small package was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr. Harold Belser," it read. Jack took the package out to his car and ripped it open. There inside was the gold box and an envelope.

Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. "Upon my death, please forward this package and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filled his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the gold box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:

"Jack, thanks for our time! Harold Belser."

"The thing he valued most ... was ... my time," Jack thought.

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.

"Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.

"I need some time to spend with my family," Jack said. "Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!"

(received from Mikey's Funnies...www.mikeysFunnies.com)

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(Tuesday, September 13)
This is a bit long but well worth the time it takes to read it.)

THE HAIRBRUSH

By Beth Moore

(For those who don't know, Beth Moore is a well-known women's Bible teacher based in Houston, Texas. She has written several books and does videos of Bible teaching from around the world.)

Knoxville airport all waiting to board planes: I had the Bible on my  lap and was very intent upon what I was doing. I'd had a marvelous  morning with the Lord. I say that because I want to tell you it is a scary thing to have the Spirit of God really working in you. You could end up doing some things you never would have done otherwise. Life in the Spirit can be dangerous for a thousand reasons, not the least of which is your ego...

I tried to keep from staring, but he was such a strange sight. Humped over in a wheelchair, he was skin and bones, dressed in clothes that obviously fit when he was at least twenty pounds heavier. His knees protruded from his trousers, and his shoulders looked like the coat hanger was still in his shirt. His hands looked like tangled masses of veins and bones. The strangest part of him was his hair and nails.

Stringy grey hair hung well over his shoulders and down part of his back. His fingernails were long. Clean, but strangely out of place on an old man.

I looked down at my Bible as fast as I could, discomfort burning my face. As I tried to imagine what his story might have been, I found myself wondering if I'd just had a Howard Hughes sighting. Then, I remembered reading somewhere that he was dead. So this man in the airport...an impersonator maybe? Was a camera on us somewhere?....

There I sat trying to concentrate on the Word to keep from being concerned about a thin slice of humanity served on a wheelchair only a few seats from me. All the while my heart was growing more and more overwhelmed with a feeling for him. Let's admit it. Curiosity is a heap more comfortable than true concern, and suddenly I was awash with aching emotion for this bizarre-looking old man.

I had walked with God long enough to see the handwriting on the wall.

 I've learned that when I begin to feel what God feels, something so contrary to my natural feelings, something dramatic is bound to happen.

And it may be embarrassing. I immediately began to resist because I could feel God working on my spirit and I started arguing with God in my mind. "Oh no, God please no." I looked up at the ceiling as if I could stare straight through it into heaven and said, " Don't make me witness to this man. Not right here and now. Please. I'll do anything.  Put me on the same plane, but don't make me get up here and witness to this man in front of this gawking audience. Please, Lord!"

There I sat in the blue vinyl chair begging His Highness, "Please don't make me witness to this man. Not now. I'll do it on the plane.  

Then I heard it..."I don't want you to witness to him. I want you to brush his hair."

The words were so clear, my heart leapt into my throat, and my thoughts spun like a top. Do I witness to the man or brush his hair?

No brainer! I looked straight back up at the ceiling and said, "God, as I live and breathe, I want you to know I am ready to witness to this man.

I'm on this Lord. I'm you're girl! You've never seen a woman witness to a man faster in your life. What difference does it make if his hair is a mess if he is not redeemed? I am on him. I am going to witness to this man."

Again as clearly as I've ever heard an audible word, God seemed to write this statement across the wall of my mind. "That is not what I said, Beth. I don't want you to witness to him. I want you to go brush his hair."

I looked up at God and quipped, "I don't have a hairbrush. It's in my suitcase on the plane, How am I suppose to brush his hair without a hairbrush?"

God was so insistent that I almost involuntarily began to walk toward him as these thoughts came to me from God's word: "I will thoroughly finish you unto all good works." (2 Tim 3:7) I stumbled over to the wheelchair thinking I could use one myself. Even as I retell this story my pulse quickens and I feel those same butterflies.

I knelt down in front of the man, and asked as demurely as possible,  "Sir, may I have the pleasure of brushing your hair?"

He looked back at me and said, "What did you say?"

"May I have the pleasure of brushing your hair?"

To which he responded in volume ten, "Little lady, if you expect me to hear you, you're going to have to talk louder than that.

At this point, I took a deep breath and blurted out, "SIR, MAY I HAVE THE PLEASURE OF BRUSHING YOUR HAIR?" At which point every eye in the place darted right at me. I was the only thing in the room looking more peculiar than old Mr. Longlocks. Face crimson and forehead breaking out in a sweat, I watched him look up at me with absolute shock on  his face, and say, "If you really want to."

Are you kidding? OF course I didn't want to. But God didn't seem interested in my personal preference right about then. He pressed on my heart until I could utter the words, "Yes, sir, I would be pleased.

But I have one little problem. I don't have a hairbrush."

"I have one in my bag," he responded.

I went around to the back of that wheelchair, and I got on my hands and knees and unzipped the stranger's old carry-on hardly believing what I was doing. I stood up and started brushing the old man's hair.  It was perfectly clean, but it was tangled and matted. I don't do many things well, but I must admit I've had notable experience untangling knotted hair mothering two little girls. Like I'd done with either Amanda or Melissa in such a condition, I began brushing at the very bottom of the strands, remembering to take my time not to pull.  

A miraculous thing happened to me as I started brushing that old man's hair.... Everybody else in the room disappeared. There was no one alive for those moments except that old man and me. I brushed and I brushed and I brushed until every tangle was out of that hair. I know this sounds so strange but I've never felt that kind of love for another soul in my entire life. I believe with all my heart, I--for
 that few minutes--felt a portion of the very love of God. That He had overtaken my heart for a little while like someone renting a room and making Himself at home for a short while. The emotions were so strong and so pure that I knew they had to be God's.  

His hair was finally as soft and smooth as an infant's. I slipped the brush back in the bag, went around the chair to face him. I got back down on my knees, put my hands on his knees, and said, "Sir, do you know my Jesus?"

He said, "Yes, I do." Well, that figures.

He explained, "I've known Him since I married my bride. She wouldn't marry me until I got to know the Savior."

He said "You see, the problem is, I haven't seen my bride in months.  I've had open-heart surgery, and she's been too ill to come see me. I was sitting here thinking to myself. What a mess I must be for my bride."

Only God knows how often He allows us to be part of a divine moment when we're completely unaware of the significance. This, on the other hand, was one of those rare encounters when I knew God had intervened in details only He could have known. It was a God moment, and I'll never forget it. Our time came to board, and we were not on the same plane.

I was deeply ashamed of how I'd acted earlier and would have been so proud to have accompanied him on that aircraft.

I still had a few minutes, and as I gathered my things to board, the airline hostess returned from the corridor, tears streaming down her cheeks. She said, "That old man's sitting on the plane, sobbing. Why did you do that? What made you do that?"

I said "Do you know Jesus? He can be the bossiest thing!" And we got to share.

I learned something about God that day. He knows if you're exhausted because you're hungry, you're serving in the wrong place or it is time to move on but you feel too responsible to budge. He knows if you're hurting or feeling rejected. He knows if you're sick or drowning under a wave of temptation. Or He knows if you just need your hair brushed.  He sees you as an individual. Tell Him your need!

I got on my own flight, sobs choking my throat, wondering how many opportunities just like that one had I missed along the way...all because I didn't want people to think I was strange. God didn't send me to that old man. He sent that old man to me.

 John 1:14 "The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We
 have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the
 Father, full of grace and truth."

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(Monday, September 12)

(time for some chuckles...and probably some moans and groans!)

A duck walks into a drugstore and asks for a tube of ChapStick.  The cashier says to the duck, "That'll be $1.49."

The duck replies, "Put it on my bill!"

*****

After a long career of being blasted into a net, the human cannonball was tired.  He told the circus owner he was going to retire.

"But you can't!" protested the boss.  "Where am I going to find another man of your caliber?"

*****

A bear walks into a bar and says, "I'd like a beer ............ and some of those peanuts.

The bartender says, "sure, but why the big paws?"

*****

My wife was in labor with our first child.  Things were going pretty well when suddenly she began to shout, "Shouldn't, couldn't, wouldn't, didn't, can't!"

"Doctor, what's wrong with my wife?"

"Nothing.  She's just having contractions."

*****

A panda walks into a bar, sits down and orders a sandwich.  He eats, pulls out a gun and shoots the waiter dead.  As the panda stands up to go, the bartender shouts, "Hey! Where are you going?  You just shot my waiter and you didn't pay for the food."

The panda yells back, "Hey, man, I'm a panda.   Look it up!"

The bartender opens his dictionary to panda:  "A tree-climbing mammal of Asian origin, characterized by distinct black and white coloring.  Eats shoots and leaves."

from "Reader's Digest", September, 2005

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(Friday, September 9)

Many years ago in a small  village, a farmer had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender.

The moneylender, who was an awful, mean man, fancied the farmer's beautiful daughter. So he proposed a bargain.

He said he would forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the proposal. So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let providence decide the matter. He told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag.

Then the girl would have to pick one pebble from the bag.


1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven.


2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven.


3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.


They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick a pebble from the bag.


Now, imagine that you were standing in the field.


What would you have done if you were the girl?


If you had to advise her, what would you have told her?


Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:


1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.


2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the money-lender as a cheat.


3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.


Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking. The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses the above logical answers.


What would you recommend to the Girl to do?


Well, here is what she did ....


The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.


"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked."


Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an extremely advantageous one.

received from Mikey's Funnies (www.mikeysFunnies.com)

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(Wednesday, September 7)

~some random thoughts~

Fear knocked at the door.
Faith answered.
No one was there.
---Old English Legend

Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.

The church is not a gallery for the exhibition of eminent Christians but a school for the education of imperfect ones, a nursery for the care of weak ones, a hospital for the healing of those who need assiduous care.
---Henry Ward Beecher

He has the film of my whole life in view, and not just the snapshot of my present situation.
---W. Trobisch

It is impossible for that man to despair who remembers that his Helper is omnipotent.
---Jeremy Taylor

Thankfulness is the soil in which joy thrives.

Don't find fault.  Find a remedy.
---Henry Ford

Don't be discouraged if your children reject your advice.  Years later they will offer it to their own offspring.

If all our misfortunes were laid in one common heap, most people would be contented to take their own and depart.

People are like stained glass windows; they sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light within.
---Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

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(Tuesday, September 6)

For some of you, the journey has been long.  Very long and stormy.  Some of you have shouldered burdens that few of us could ever carry.  You have bid farewell to life-long partners.  You have been robbed of life-long dreams.  You have been given bodies that can't sustain your spirit.  You have spouses who can't tolerate your faith.  You have bills that outnumber the paychecks and challenges that outweigh the strength.

And you are tired.

It's hard for you to see the City in the midst of the storms.  The desire to pull over to the side of the road and get out entices you.  You want to go on, but some days the road seems so long.

Let me encourage you.  God never said that the journey would be easy, but he did say that the arrival would be worthwhile.

Remember this:  God may not do what you want, but he will do what is right . . . and best.  He's the Father of forward motion.  Trust him.  He will get you home.  And the trials of the trip will be lost in the joys of the feast.

from In The Eye Of The Storm by Max Lucado

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(Saturday, September 3)

 the next time
you hear a baby laugh
or see an ocean wave,
take note.
pause and listen
as his majesty whispers
ever so gently,
"I'm here."

from Mocha with Max by Max Lucado 

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(Thursday, September 1)

The mark of a saint is not perfection, but consecration. A saint
is not a man without faults, but a man who has given himself
without reserve to God.
-- W. T. Richardson
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This Story Doesn't Wash!, by Rubel Shelly

The criminal-tragic tale of two fugitives suspected in the murder of
a prison guard in my home state last week ended on a tip from a cab
driver. He had dropped off the pair at a motel, without making a
connection between them and the ongoing national manhunt. Then he got
to thinking about them. "The cover story they gave me didn't really
seem to 'wash' too much," Mike Wagers said. "I could kinda see
through that. But I had no indication that these guys were really
dangerous or they were on the run."

During the 115-mile trip from Kentucky into Ohio, there had been some
conversation. What Wagers called their "cover story" was the
explanation they somehow felt compelled to give about hiring a cab
for such a long trip. They told him they were on their way to an
Amway convention. "They didn't strike me as the Amway type because,
to be honest, they weren't very pushy about their product," continued
Wagers. "And I've dealt with [Amway distributors] before, so that was
my only real suspicion."

Now don't any of you who sell Amway products get defensive! I have no
quarrel with people who sell Amway or Chevrolets or widget baskets
promoting their products. Sure, the word "pushy" has negative
connotations. And some people cross that line with their sales
pitches. But, the way you create a market for a product is
advertising. Promotion. And word-of-mouth ads are the best of all.

Wonder if the claim some of us make to be disciples of Jesus ever
sounds hollow? The name "Christian" seems like a bad fit? If anybody
ever thought about it later and mumbled, "I'm not sure that person's
claim 'washes' with me!"

Christians almost certainly hurt our cause when we are too abrupt and
pushy in our evangelistic efforts. I don't like in-your-face
recruiters. Intrusive sales people. Or brassy Christians who think
the gospel justifies rudeness. But is it too much to expect that we
speak well of our faith? The church? And Jesus?

Disciples (i.e., students) of Jesus are always learning about him.
Making the effort to imitate him. And it's unthinkable to me that we
would never get his name into conversations or tell people the
difference it makes to know him. Give him credit for something good
that has happened to us or through us. Explain why we think or act a
certain way in terms of commitments made to him.

If it shocks a cabby that Amway dealers aren't talking about their
wares, it should certainly stun people when Christians have nothing
to say about Jesus.

Honor Christ and let him be the Lord of your life. Always be ready
to give an answer when someone asks you about your hope. (1 Peter
3:15 CEV)

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(c) 2005 Rubel Shelly

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